Even though this article seems to weight "peer reviewed" more than your experiences, it's interesting to see how "internet sites" (perhaps as this one) can be denigrated:
"...Study results showed all 105 websites highlighted the benefits of vertebroplasty, but 53% outlined any risks of the procedure. While 74% referenced appropriate indications, 45% discussed any contraindications and 51% mentioned alternative treatments.
Researchers also found that 27% of the websites used peer-reviewed literature and 41% offered experimental or non-cited data based on American populations.
“Appropriate discussion of a patient’s understanding of a procedure is critical, and physicians should make efforts to inquire about internet research, taking time to counsel patients regarding the limitations of internet information,” Sullivan stated..." - Source: Healio.com
Yes, it can be confusing. But nothing beats getting information from the source -- you patients. Talk to each other as much as you can. Learn the tough questions to ask. Seek the answers. Find completeness in your decisions!