Cat,
Your frustration level is very similar to my wife Zena's. She's been through as much over the past 4 years as many patients story's I have seen and we are also in the appeal process and getting cold denials. Each time our appeal gets rejected, we have an outburst together. You have to blow off here to get the blue funk out of your head and then get back to the only option which is SUCCESS; stay a good candidate for the ADR by not messing yourself up in any way, and don't get your base commander peeved. Sorry for being male in the reply because I can see that you're really hurt and I am very sympathetic for you and your husband.
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