Gina, sorry you are here, but I hope we can help.
Pelvic pain is not uncommon, especially in this community. If you search, you will find some relevant posts:
https://www.adrsupport.org/forums/search.php
Have you had any specific tests to triangulate on the pain generator(s)? EMG? Injections?
Also, do you have history of infections such as strep, Lyme disease, dental, UTI, etc.? Sometimes, bacterial and/or viruses find their way into cervical and lumbar tissues.