Hi Harleys Dad,
well I can send my sympathies to you from the UK -- -- -- we actually get people on the trolley and waiting to go into the operating theatre and this sort of thing happens to them. I call it a form of mental torture.
It's obviously total confusion with the organisation by the people who did it.
It sounds as if you're being a little bit hard on the nurse who was only the messenger. You know what we say "Don't Shoot the Messenger".
I have got to believe that your surgery will go ahead in the next two to three weeks. It's a dreadful experience and I do sympathise.
Best,
Alastair