[LisaB]

I had my son when I was 35 and was having serious back problems by the time I had him. Carrying and delivering was pretty rough.

I haven't had an ADR (yet), but, if I were you I would follow my heart. I too felt the same as you about a child growing inside me and feeding at my breast and don't think I would have felt complete if I hadn't gone through that. I think, at the worst, you would have to have bed rest at the end of the pregnancy and have to have a C-section. My other concern would maybe be to aggravate any additional problems that may not show up yet and need pain meds and have to wait. As I said, this would probably worst case. But, you would be amazed at what you can deal with when you know what the gift at the end will be.

I hope that you are able to follow your heart on this.